Sarah
Langan
My mother can smell bullshit a mile away. She can also name every flower. Every flower I have ever seen, she can
name, supply the Latin Root for.
When she smells them, she cups her hands around their petals, bends down,
and takes one quick, guilty sniff.
She never touches them.
Nothing in life is for the picking, the taking, with my
mother.
I grew up on Long Island in a town called Garden city. Any gardens which actually existed had
long since been converted into golf clubs and clothing stores. My mother told me that Garden City
wasn't always a large parking lot like the rest of Long Island. She said that once, Roosevelt Field was
not a three tiered mall but a wide open space where planes took flight across
the Atlantic. Queens was once
pretty. The idea of it was as
mythic as the golden age of Brooklyn.
She gave tours at Old Westbury Gardens. She was sure to tell everyone who asked
and even a few who didn't that she didn't need the money. She gave the tours in order to give
something back to Long Island. To
keep the memory of the golden age alive.
Old Westbury Gardens was a mass of land, once owned by a captain of
industry and handed over, generations later, by his family, to the public. There were rolling hills, rose gardens,
fountains, a mansion, and a miniature house, an actual house, built for a
daughter by her father at the height of his empire. The story goes: when the little girl needed to be away
from the sprawling gardens and the mansion and guest houses and riding paths and
brick walks, always leading to fountains, she would go there to play
pretend. To be alone until she was
called back home.
I visited my mother at the gardens last summer and she took me for a
tour. It was a hot August day and I
wore my sun glasses because, at three in the afternoon, I was still hung over
from the night before. My clothes
had recently gotten a little tighter and the khaki shorts I wore rode
uncomfortably close to my bloated butt.
When I visited, she greeted me with a light kiss and I was not sure that
her lips had actually touched my cheek.
She was wearing a long, paisley skirt and white blouse, her posture so
straight that it looked as if she were balancing a bible on the top of her
head.
My mother was a neat woman. No one can argue that. Trim. Pretty, possibly, but more likely to be
described as handsome. She wore a
tight bun that day, no strands undone, even in that Long Island humidity, and
she took me from garden to garden, describing each and every
flower.
We started at the mile long driveway and worked our way behind the
mansion. It was the first time I
had seen her since my house warming party three months before and though I had
known that my mother was getting on in her years, I only then realized that she
truly did look sixty. Not fifty,
not forty. But a very healthy
sixty. It had surprised me then, as
if someone had snatched both of our youths without my having
noticed.
We did not make small talk.
It was not my mother's strong point. Immediately, after her kiss, she began
with the tour as she would with any other woman or group of children who had
bought a ticket. "Forsithia" she
told me, pointing from one attraction to the next, "Ficus, Rhodemdrum." We made our way up the
walk.
After some time, she could tell that I was bored. After all, I wasn't there to look at
flowers, I was there to visit my mother.
"You'll like the rose garden she said and sighed, "They're flashier," as
flashy was a mortal sin.
Behind the mansion, we found the rose garden. Every possible color rose was
represented. They were all
differing shades of purple underneath my glasses. "Smell them," she instructed, "They only
come once a year like this."
I didn't bother. Instead, I
told her I wished someone had given me a black rose corsage, just once, because
I thought they were so unique. They
would have read my mind, I said.
She answered that I would have liked a black rose in theory, but upon
being presented with one, I would have been insulted. "You are too dark as it is, you would
think they were making a joke." She
said.
"I have light hair."
"Yes, you have pretty ash blonde hair that shines red in the sun. You
should have brushed it today."
I picked a white rose off its stem and put it in my hair. She frowned. "They're not for
picking."
"Neither am I."
At a seeming impasse on whether to finish the tour or just go home, we
stood at the end of a path, surrounded by roses, long blades of grass itching at
my ankles. I could feel the sun on
my back. I felt I might throw
up. We were silent for a while
until she asked, "How is life, life back in the suburbs?" I had moved from New York City to
Westchester County.
"Good, we're painting the spare bedroom. I've learned to
stencil."
"You were always an artist."
"I wasn't good enough." I
said this, not because I believed it, but because I knew she thought
it.
"I know. But you were always
an artist. You still
are."
"They say that a lot at Merril Lynch."
She rolled her eyes. "Well,
you drink like an artist," she said, and the tone in her voice reminded me of
other times, times when I had still lived at home.
"It's my hobby, mom. John
and I sit on the front porch and slop back forties. Then we line them up and shoot 'em down
with our shot guns."
She sighed but her posture did not change. Still straight, five inches taller than
myself. A rock, my mother, an aging
rock. "I'm sure you're a very good
shot. These here are my favorite,"
she pointed at the pink roses. I
thought it was strange that she would like something so exotic, relatively
speaking.
She bent down and smelled one.
She smiled, a secret smile she reserved only for her flowers. "How do they keep all the Japanese
beetles away, if they don't use chemicals?" I asked her.
"Simple, my dear," her gaze shifted until she found one of the round,
black bugs, burying it's way through a white rose. "You take it between your hands," she
pulled the beetle off of a velvety petal, "and step on it," she said, dropping
it to the ground and grinding her heel into the grass as if she were putting out
a cigarette.
It reminded me to light one up.
We sat on the bench at the end of the path and she took a puff off my
Camel. When she handed it back, the
filter was wet with saliva. She had
not smoked an entire cigarette since she knew she was pregnant with me and she
had forgotten how. I continued
smoking. She adjusted the flower in
my hair. "It looks nice on you,"
she told me and smiled, apparently having forgiven me for having picked
it.
"Flowers always look nice."
"So does my daughter. She's
a lot like me."
I looked for a convenient place to put out my cigarette. Finding none, I tossed it onto the wet
grass in front of me. She picked up
the wet stub, wrapped it in a tissue, and put it inside her purse. It was the same gesture she might have
used when I was eight, borrowing a hankie from her in church, blown my nose from
it, and then returning it to her.
We continued our walk. She
pointed and named, talking so much that I stopped listening. "Phloxmaculata," it was tall and green
like a weed but she seemed to like it, "Hibiscus Syryacus 'Diana'," white like
the September colors of Florida, "Astor Frikartii, wonder of staff," blue, with
a yellow center, what I imagined a star to be like if I were ever close enough
to see clearly, "Daylillie Grebe, Rudbeckia Goldstrum--it's a black eyed
Susan...."
In the distance, I saw a tiny house fit with small windows and a doorway
only four feet tall. I pointed at
it and she nodded me ahead. I
jogged over to it, bent down, stepped inside, and suddenly, I was Alice in
Wonderland. There were small velvet
chairs and child sized dolls with long blonde hair and blue eyes and a tiny
kitchen, equipped with a wood stove and counter. I made my way past the chain barriers
and onto a little rocking chair. I
sat in it with my thighs popping out between the wood and my knees curled up and
thought about eating my flower.
I closed my eyes and rocked.
She did not come for me and I knew she was waiting outside. I heard her call my name. "You come in here, it's nice," I heard
myself say.
"I can't come in there," she said patiently.
"No, just bend down, you'll like it."
"I've seen it."
"See it again."
"I'm too big for it and so are you."
I started to cry for no good reason except that it was a too hot August
day and I had a hangover and my flesh was confined to this tiny chair and I knew
that when I stood up, I would be able to hear the sound of my skin separating
from the wood, raw and sweaty.
My mother followed me into the house. She saw me crying. She stood behind me and rocked the chair
back and forth. I began to feel
dizzy and suddenly I thought that I was Alice, in the rabbit hole, wearing a
blue frock like one of the dolls, talking to the Queen of Hearts. "Do you have your period?" she
asked.
I laughed.
"You know how you get moody during your period."
"It's not my period." That
was the one thing it could not possibly be.
"What is it?"
"I hate flowers."
"Then don't look at them."
"I want to leave John. I
want to paint," I blurted out, because this was not a thing I could say calmly,
not a thing I could just ease into.
"You need some sleep," she said.
I could not see her face.
She walked outside and waited by the entrance, looking in, until my tears
were dry.
I stood up, keeping my head bent down so that it did not touch the
ceiling. "Come on, let's go. We'll get some coffee at the diner down
the road," she called.
I stood there, not wanting to move, my shoulders hunched so that I could
only see her skirt and feet, framed by the door, from a downward
view.
"You don't belong in there."
She took my hand and pulled me outside.
We walked out into the sunlight and I squinted underneath my
glasses. "I meant what I said," I
told her.
"No, you didn't. You never mean what you say. That's your problem." She did not look angry or sad. She never has. I wiped a piece of hair from my face to behind my ear and found the rose. I extricated it from a snarl and handed it to her.
She held it carefully in her open palm. "I don't need this. It's yours, you keep it. I don't like white," she said returning
the flower to my ear. "See, you're
a woman who should wear flowers," she told me, standing
back.
"You generation was always tougher than mine," I joked, invoking the
voice of some hillbilly or Henry Fonda in "The Grapes of Wrath." It came out
serious.
She considered, looking at me, sizing me up. Her gaze was mostly focused on my
stomach. "Yes," she said, "Yes,
I've always been stronger than you."
Right then, I knew that the thing in my stomach would grow inside of me,
gnawing at the whole of me until it was full and then it would leave, taking
everything with it just as I knew that the child would be a girl. This would happen for no good reason
except that she was right.